
Now that we have finished the group work I can have a global idea of all the process we followed doing it, and all the things I have learned and also the problems and doubts that arose. I have worked with Alexia, Bente, Laia and Mia about teenage mothers. We had to compare the focus group at different levels between three countries: Denmark, France and Spain.
At the beginning, when the teachers explained us the idea of the project, I felt a little bit afraid because sometimes is difficult to work in group, and I have never worked in international groups, where explaining yourself is more difficult for the language barrier and where you don´t know the way that your pals are used to work.
But when we received the groups division, I felt really lucky and I start having wanted of start, because I like the people I had to work with and the subject we choose was very interesting for me. Since the beginning, all of us gave their opinion, we chose the focus together, teenage mothers, and I think all of us were interested in it.
Talking about the expectations and the contract, I felt very motivated because all of us wanted to work and try to get a good mark, but in the other hand also very relaxed and comfortable, because we agreed on trust each other, for example being comprehensive if someone needed a break, or a free day, or got ill, and working the rest without anger if something would happen.
When we started talking about the project, everything was very confusing and messed up, but after some days we started making our own index of the project and work, linking the structure that the teachers gave us with the useful information about the focus we have chosen, so we had a clear and concrete starting point, where everybody knew what to look for and how to do it. In my opinion, it was one of the biggest successes we had in this way, because it facilitated all the work and conditioned the whole process in a good way.
I think we found a very nice way of working, because we were hard-working but not very strict with each others, so I felt really good with that dynamic, and very lucky with my colleagues because all of them were very very hard-working. We only felt uncomfortable about the punctuality, because some of us, me included, used to arrive a bit later than the meeting hour, and I understood that is equally hard for all to wake up early and go to school, but although it never meant a big problem, I still feel a little bit guilty for being late sometimes.
About the Spanish part of the project, I felt very comfortable working with my Spanish pal, Laia, because she is very easy-going and we understood each other easily. We shared the tasks with the investigation, redaction and translation, and we make our part sooner than I was expecting.
At the moment of put all the countries information together, we were serious reading the other´s parts, and all of us provided some ideas or opinions about what to write and how to structure it. Obviously, some people spoke more than others, but I think it´s completely normal because it depends on each one´s personality, and happens in every kind of groups, but I believe that the important thing is that everybody feels free and motivated of sharing their opinions, and I think that more or less all of us felt like this.
Sometimes I could feel very big differences about the ways of working and understanding the project, but talking, respecting and being flexible we always overcame the obstacles. This was really useful and positive because we learned how to work with different working cultures and traditions, what provided us with competences as professionals, because is really important for a social educator to know how to negotiate, listening and respecting the rest but making myself heard too, and sharing interests, opinions, methods…and even some constructive critics.
About the tutorials, I thought at the beginning that would be boring and stressful, but I felt very comfortable with and I think they were really concrete and efficient, because Karen was very clear and focused in the important parts and aspects of the work, forgetting the less important things, and counseling us with a lot of respect and sincerity. I felt a very mature way of working by both parties, and I really liked it, because I never felt we were loosing time o making Karen loose it, but at the same time the tutorials were useful and necessaries.
After hand over the project and the autumn break, we prepared the presentation for the rest of the class. It was pretty easy because we had the information clear and order, so we just chose what we found as important and share the presentation, and resumed the project in a Powerpoint to support our explanations.
The day of the presentations I felt a little bit nervous about speaking in front of all the class, and this time being evaluated…but after seeing two of my class mate´s presentations, and fully trusting in my colleagues, I could finally feel comfortable and talkative during our presentation. I was very happy about how it worked when we finished and very relieved about finishing the project work, which took us five weeks.
About the mark, I feel really happy, I think is a good mark and we worked hard for it, so it´s very heartwarming. As a conclusion, the work was hard and difficult and some days I finished with a hard headache, but I have learned many positive things and competences about the focus group and working methods and tools, so definitely, it was a really good experience.
Finally, I just want to say thank you very much to my colleagues for working hard and easy-going and to the teachers for “forcing” us to learn by doing professional skills at the same time that we learned professional theory.